Sunday, April 20, 2014
Along with some pretty standard questions that I seem to always get. Let's run through some questions I've been getting from strangers, family, neighbors and anyone who sees I've "swallowed a basket ball".
-Do you know what you're having? Yes, it's a baby. At least I hope it is. It was looking like an alien there for a while. We'll see when I give birth though.
-Have you thought of a name? No, we thought about just naming the alien after one random person in the room.
-Oh my gosh, you're about to pop! OR You're so huge! How much longer? I've decided to stay pregnant forever.
-You look like you just swallowed a basketball. Well, that seems quite impossible, now doesn't it?
-Are you having contractions?! (Usually asked by someone close because I'm holding my belly.) No, I just ate so I'm a little gassy and might just need to fart. So you should probably not stand to close. Not to mention, this kid is dragging limbs across my belly, kicking me in the lungs/ribs so I'm just a tad uncomfortable right now.
I also constantly get questions about labor and birth that drive me insane. Questions about what we plan on doing with our son while all that's going on and unsolicited advice about what we should be doing. Yes, I'm still nursing my 2 year old. He still wants to nurse and I'm comfortable (for the most part) with him doing so. Please stop telling me wean him because it really makes me want to slap you. Our son will be present during labor and the birth as he is part of our family and I want him involved. No, this will not traumatize him. He's been very much apart of this pregnancy from day one, going to appointments and whatnot. We've even watched a few homebirth videos together. He's excited for his baby to get here. Of course I'm concerned about jealousy issues, which is why I've had him part of this whole pregnancy from the get go. Please stop telling me how my son is going to react to the new baby. The two people who know him best are his parents. Not anyone else.
Stop commenting on my size. Seriously, it's extremely rude. I understand that for a tiny figured woman I look ginormous. I really do. It's still not acceptable to comment on. It's also extremely rude to comment on my eating habits or suggest I'm not eating as much (or as little) as I should be. I eat when I'm hungry, which is pretty often, just ask my husband. I think he's gaining as much weight as I have. I have actually gained less this pregnancy than I did with C's. Not because I'm not eating how I "should" but because I eat differently. Each pregnancy is different so comparing the two and making judgement because I'm "not taking care of myself" is just ignorant. I hate to sound so mean in this post, but I'm at the point in pregnancy (39 weeks you guys!) that I really just don't have patience and I can't just always smile and nod when people get on my nerves. I should note that I have no issues discussing certain things with close friends and family. Most of the time anyway.
Now I want to get a few confessions off my chest. This will be the fun part that not many pregnant women talk about because a lot of it is probably embarrassing. Heck, I don't care. I'm 39 weeks and about to give birth any day now.
-I rarely shave my legs, but I do occasionally get to them because I don't want crazy hairy legs when I give birth. I'm pretty sure my husband has commented on several occasions about my crazy hair. It's not that I can't shave this far in pregnancy, because I totally can. It's just a bit tiring so I do it when I get around to it. Which is probably once a month!
-If I could stay in bed all day, I would. Partly because I'm extremely uncomfortable lugging this huge belly around, but also because I'm lazy. Making a human is exhausting. While nothing is medically or physically "wrong" with me, I just get tired easily and would prefer to stay in bed all day in my pajamas.
-I say I don't want help with certain things, but when someone offers I rarely ever decline. For example, my sister has come over to help me with 2 loads of diaper laundry that I just refused to fold. She's also helped clean up here and there because I'm just super lazy and don't feel like doing it. She's been pretty awesome.
-I wouldn't mind going one day without discussing pregnancy. My husband reminded me it's just the first thing that comes up because it's obvious and noticeable. This is very much true, but does not stop me from wanting to throat punch people because I'm just annoyed with all the questions and smart remarks.
-Sometimes I avoid seeing certain people because I know they're going to jump in my bubble and rub all over my belly like when they see a puppy on the street. I really wonder how many of those people run up to a guy with a beer gut and rub on his lovely belly.
-I always have the most hilarious comebacks to annoying/stupid questions that I constantly get, but I'm too nice to actually say them to someone in person. A lady at the grocery store asked what I'm having and of course I wanted to use the awesome response above. However, I just smiled and answered her. I'm just not very confrontational and have a hard time actually being "mean" when I really wish I could.
-I eat and drink what I crave. There will be times I have Taco Bell twice in one week because it's delicious and I want it. I drink Pepsi because I crave it so bad. This doesn't mean I'm completely unhealthy. I try to drink at least 1-2 cups for every one Pepsi I drink. (It doesn't always happen though.) Oh and *gasp* my Pepsi usually has caffeine. I just know not to overdo it and drink water to stay hydrated.
-I'm way too oversensitive about certain things and I know it. But whatever!
I figured I'd add a recent belly shot for you all. This is me practicing with my new ringsling (which is gorgeous in person). I actually won it (I'll write up a review when squishy gets here) from Willow Tree Ring Slings!
So that's basically it for this round. I love being pregnant, I really do, but people just get weird and annoying when it comes to pregnant women. To change the tone a bit, I'm loving having my two doulas for this pregnancy! They really have made this journey less stressful. I'm not nervous about labor or birth at all and I'd like to give the two of them credit for this. The one thing I'm nervous about is having 2 kids now instead of just one. It'll be quite a journey, but I'm ready! I want to take a moment to thank my awesome husband for listening to me always complain about what people say, because I know he just doesn't care anymore, but he pretends to listen. Of course I want to thank my doulas for being absolutely amazing and wonderful! This birth is going to rock because of them! I also want to thank my sister because she brings me Pepsi when I have none and helps me do things because I'm lazy. She's just that awesome.
Here's hoping I can get a few more of these posts in before the baby gets here, but like I admitted several times, I'm lazy. So we'll see how well that goes. For now, I'm going to go lay in bed and hopefully fall back to sleep. For some reason I thought it was a good idea to get up at 6 am (after only 4 hours of sleep) so I could do laundry and write this post. Also, have a very happy Easter (if you celebrate)! Eat tons of candy and delicious food and enjoy that family time.
Saturday, April 19, 2014
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Friday, April 4, 2014
So before first use (as with pretty much everything that touches baby) you'll have to wash the swaddles in cold water, with like colors and tumble dry on low heat. DO NOT add bleach and do not iron them, ever! The first thing I noticed was how incredibly soft they are! They have to be THE SOFTEST swaddle blankets I've ever felt. The swaddle blankets I used with my son are described as "swaddling your baby in extreme softness" but they are not nearly as soft as the A+A swaddles! The swaddles we used before are made of polyester while the Aden + Anais swaddles are made of 100% cotton muslin. I love that they are pre-washed so you don't have to worry about them shrinking. This happened with our other swaddle blankets. There are so many great features about the A+A swaddles that I love!
First is the generous size of the swaddles. They're giant compared to swaddle blankets I've used in the past. This means that swaddling your baby will be much easier than if you use smaller sized swaddles blankets. This also means less frustration when you're attempting to swaddle. Being a first time parent is hard, especially if you've never had much interaction with a newborn. When we brought our son home, we had no idea how to swaddle. So the small size of our swaddles made this extremely frustrating. The size of them also means that they are going to have multiple uses. They can be used as a nursing cover, a way to cover your car seat or stroller (and example would be carrying your infant seat in from the car and it's raining), a changing table cover (or wherever you change baby), a burp cloth, a tummy time blanket and so many more. You'll be able to use these long after you're past the point of swaddling. My toddler hates using covers during nap time, but sometimes it gets a little chilly for him. The Aden + Anais swaddles are big enough to cover him, but not too heavy that he'll get to warm and want to kick them off.
Another important quality of the swaddles is that they are breathable. This is important because it helps prevent your little bundle of joy from overheating. Not only are they extremely soft right when you pull them out of the package, but they only get softer as you wash them. Which is hard for me to imagine because I'm already impressed with how soft they are! Aden + Anais have exclusive prints designed specifically by them.
They have the most adorable prints! I reviewed the Jungle Jam swaddles which come with a monkey print, a giraffe print, a bird print and an elephant print. They have tons of great options to choose from on their site!
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A little side note I wanted to add was how you pronounce the name because I know I struggled with it at first. They put it on their Facebook page in their "About" section so you know! It's pronounced AY-dun and uh-NAY.
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Monday, March 17, 2014
Since I have the biggest pregnant belly that you can see from space, I didn't do much playing. I took my camera along to get some cute pictures of him having a blast. I think my camera is probably my absolute favorite accessory. (I love it even more than my cloth diapers, but shh! Don't tell them that.) We're headed back out to the park
Not only am I looking forward to all the nice weather that spring and summer will bring, I'm looking forward to our baby's arrival. While I've been hoping for a May baby, I'm not entirely sure baby C will wait that long. I guess only time will tell. My Mom joked that I'm going to go into labor on Easter. That would be awful! I want to enjoy a nice delicious Easter dinner while pregnant. I mean, being pregnant eating great food is probably the best! Although, since I'll be tandem nursing, I think eating a lot of delicious food will be equally awesome and I'll be able to eat a ton and still lose the weight. (The best part about breastfeeding right? I'm kidding of course.) I'm really getting to the point of being anxious waiting for baby C to get here. There's still so much we have to get done though. We need to move, get a dresser for baby's clothes and reorganize basically everything to make things less crowded. This is a lot to attempt to do before our baby arrives, but I'm up for the challenge. I'd rather be all moved in to a new place before baby gets here than have to try to move everything after baby has already arrived. Even though I won't be able to move anything really, even the light stuff, I can direct people where I want things to go. That's pretty exciting. We had actually planned on being moved already, but it's been difficult trying to find a place with the right criteria. I'm sure I don't have to tell any of you how time consuming and difficult it is trying to find a new home.
So that's pretty much where I am at this point. Just trying to have patience and hope everything works out the way it's supposed to soon. I've also been trying to take it easy just because of the way I've been feeling. I get super exhausted and feel like baby could just fall right out. Yesterday (Monday) was 34 weeks so we still have a while to go before I'd be comfortable with baby being born. Like I said though, I'm crossing my fingers for a May baby. Maybe I should be crossing my legs for a May baby instead. Hehe.
Are there any other Mamas due soon? When is your due date and how are you feeling? Are you ready for baby's arrival or are you enjoying the last stretch of pregnancy. I've enjoyed it up to the point of not being able to move around very easily because I'm so huge!
Also, don't forget there's a giveaway that's ending. If you haven't entered, do it now. There are low entries so your chances of winning are pretty great! Be on the look out for another review coming up soon. I'm working on that now and I think you'll enjoy it a lot. As always, thanks for reading my little blog and hope you come back soon!
Monday, March 3, 2014
For Christmas C got a Radio Flyer Wagon with his name on the side from my dad and brother. A few days after, we had a decently warm day for it being winter. So I grabbed my camera, stuck C in his wagon and went out on a walk. I captured him at the perfect time with a giant smile on his face, his nameplate showing with a great tree in the background. It quickly became my favorite photo of him. I just had to get it printed. I figured what better way than to do a review and possibly an awesome giveaway. Everybody wins!
Easy Canvas Prints lets you turn your favorite photos into some amazing wall art. They have so many sizes you can choose from so you can add your favorite photo to that perfect place on your wall. The smallest size is an 8x8 and you can get all the way up to a 30x40!
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The process was extremely easy to order my custom canvas print. It didn't take me long from start to finish to complete and order my canvas. It shipped to me via UPS and was actually shipped sooner than my original estimated shipping date, which is always nice to see. They are extremely fast at Easy Canvas Prints! It was processed and shipped in about 13 days (that includes weekend days) and I ordered it on a Friday. As soon as it arrived, I opened it up to check it out. I was extremely happy with how it turned out. The quality is absolutely amazing! They took my favorite photo of my son and turned it into an amazing piece of art for me to hang in my home.
If you're looking for a quality product with great customer service, you should definitely check them out! Their website is so easy to navigate, so if you're looking to check your order or contact them, it's all right there easy to find! They have a great section for pricing and design options if you'd like to check that out before beginning the process of designing your canvas. They also have a section where you can get ideas of what to have printed on your canvas, which is nice because it gives you ideas of where you could hang your canvas. There is also a section for customer stories where you can read how they liked their canvas or who they ordered their canvas for. I would absolutely order from them again especially once my newest addition to the family gets here. I'm going to enjoy showing it off to any visitors we have in our home.
|I'm not the best at making things even, but it looks amazing!|
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Thursday, February 27, 2014
So if you're wondering if it's worth spending the money each month on, I'm going to break down what came in my February box. Let me start by saying I love how they used tissue paper to make it seem like a nice little present. My little guy loved opening it to see what was inside. It was like Christmas to him! This was after I opened it to take pictures and put it all back together of course. He was sleeping though, so he didn't know. Shh, don't tell him.
First up is the Green Toys Stock Pot and Utensils. My son absolutely loves kitchen stuff, so this was a great product for him to get. While we already have a few things for his kitchen set we have, these were a great addition and he really enjoys playing with them. The lid is a bit hard for him (and even me) to get off, but it's a great product. I absolutely love Green Toys! They're made with 100% recycled milk jugs, which is probably the coolest thing ever! We have a bath toy from Green Toys that he loves as well. I couldn't find the exact retail value of this. I found a set with an extra piece for $16.99.
The next item up is actually for moms which is really cool! This is Green Apple Age Defy Hand Cream. I love that they added a product in for moms. This cream has organic apple juice, organic white grape juice, organic lemon juice, organic aloe leaf juice, organic jojoba oil, organic shea butter, algae extract, green tea leaf extract and organic linseed seed oil. So basically this is a great organic hand cream! This retails for $12.
Next up is the Oogaa Silicone Divided Plate.
This is such a cute little plate! It's great to keep all your toddlers food separated, which can be important since toddlers can be extremely picky. I know my little guy doesn't really like his food mixing because if he doesn't like the taste of something,
he doesn't want that on his other food. The plate is BPA free, has no harsh chemicals and is easy to clean. Like really easy. It's also dishwasher, microwave, freezer and oven safe. That's pretty impressive. I love that it's silicone because if he decides to throw or slam his plate, it's not going to break. This actually goes with his airplane spoon I won in a previous giveaway, so that's pretty awesome. (I just need to get him the train spoons, because I know he'll love those!) This plate retails for $10.99.
Last but not least is Starlight Sailor from Barefoot Books! This might actually be my favorite item in the box. The illustrations are beautiful in this book. C seems to be really interested every time I read it and loves pointing out what he sees. Especially the dog! These books are extremely well made. It's such a nice thick cardboard book, which is definitely a plus for us. My little guy is notorious for ripping pages in his books, so this book is going to be able to stand up to his destructive side. Starlight Sailor retails for $14.99.
I'm really impressed with this being my first box. The products were all great and really fit for what my toddler is interested in currently. The value of all the items in the box is roughly $50 which is a great deal for only spending $29 a month. (I got mine free with a promotion they were running.) Although, like I said in the beginning, your first box is 50% off when you sign up and you can always cancel after a month if you'd like. If you're interested in signing up, use my referral code here and get your first box half off. If you're interested in seeing what some of the previous months have been to see what kinds of products you might get, Jenny over at Cloth Diaper Revival writes up a great post each month with what she gets. I always enjoy reading her posts and they really made me want to try Citrus Lane!
Again, use my referral code so you can try out one month for 50% off! That's such a great deal for a box that is worth about $50 or more each month! https://www.citruslane.com/invitedby/Katie.Fender.2767822
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Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Even with my first pregnancy, the first trimester was not that horrible. Not only was I completely exhausted all the time (and couldn't exactly rest when I wanted like I did with the first pregnancy since I have a toddler to chase around) I couldn't eat anything. So I was just miserable and couldn't wait until the second trimester. Other than that, I've been enjoying pregnancy so much (Besides a few things like aching hips, but that comes with the territory.) and feel like it's going to be over before I know it.
My belly is huge and I find myself wondering how it could get any bigger. Then I remember back to when I was pregnant with C and my belly was ginormous!
Eventually I'll be so big it's going to take me an extra 30 minutes to do anything. I feel the baby move around so much and love watching my belly move just as much as I love feeling it. C is really loving the idea of a baby also. He will say love you to my belly and kiss it! Now he seems to be obsessed with babies. So I know he's going to make a great big brother.
We still do not know the gender as of right now. It's pretty exciting. Although, we found out we'll have the option of finding out the gender on Thursday if we'd like. This is extremely tempting for us! On the one hand, we've made it 30 weeks now and only have 10 more to go. I feel like we could absolutely hold out and wait the last 10 weeks until he/she is born. On the other hand it would be so nice to know! We could start buying gender specific baby clothing, my friend could throw us a gender specific baby shower (before he/she is born) and we could just be prepared for the arrival in general. My suggestion if we don't find out is to just buy a few gender neutral outfits and wait to have a "Welcome To The World Baby" party. I also have a really cute idea planned for how to announce when the baby is born, what gender he/she is. My husband said we could still do all of that and still find out for ourselves, just not tell anyone else until after the baby is born. It's a really tough choice because I have really been aching to know. At the same time, I love the idea of having the ultimate surprise after labor. I really think it could be an extra boost of motivation for the natural birth I have planned.
We're also planning on moving before the baby gets here, which will be such a huge task and I'm kind of dreading it. Though, we're really looking forward to getting out of our current place. It's going to be interesting moving while pregnant and with a toddler. I see it as the best possible way to nest. I can make sure everything is how I want it before I go into labor so there's nothing to change at the last minute. It's really all about seeing the bright side to things.
So I'm curious, did you find out the gender? Or did you wait until birth? What was the experience like if you decided to wait?